"Angel one day, storm the next!"
If one day your 2-year-old hugs and kisses you and the next day he/she shouts "No, I'll do it!"... Congratulations, you have met the 2-year-old syndrome.
What is 2 Year Old Syndrome and is it Real?
Yes, the 2-year-old syndrome is a real developmental stage according to psychologists. During this period, children gain a sense of independence, test boundaries and try to individualise.
Crying fits, stubbornness and outbursts of anger are common during this phase. This is a natural consequence of the child's difficulty in controlling his/her emotions.
What are the Symptoms?
- Tendency to say "No" all the time
- Unprovoked crying and tantrums
- The desire to want to do things on your own
- Stubborn behaviour such as picking clothes, refusing food
- Rapid mood swings
These symptoms are normal parts of the child's growth and development process.
How can parents cope?
- Don't panic: This period is temporary.
- Try to stay calm: Be a guide, not a reactionary.
- Offer choice: Give a sense of control with questions such as "Is this a red T-shirt or a blue one?".
- Establish a routine: Uncertainty increases anger.
- Give a hug and show understanding: Accept your child's feelings.
When Expert Support is Required?
- If the tantrums are extremely intense and continuous
- If there are behaviours that harm the environment
- If there are serious problems in communication
In these cases, it is absolutely necessary to consult a child psychologist.
When to Get Expert Support?
The 2-year-old syndrome usually proceeds normally. However, if the tantrums intensify excessively, damage the environment or cause serious difficulties in communicating, it may be useful to seek support from a specialist.
Conclusion: Storm Passes, Growth Remains
The 2-year-old syndrome is a child's way of saying "I'm here!". Sometimes exhausting, sometimes funny, but always instructive. Yes, it can be difficult. But this is a very precious period of time when your child's character begins to form and learns to connect with the world.
Remember, this period will pass... but you will grow together.